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Getting older seems to come with lots of negativity about the supposed “decline” that comes with the aging process. But, that’s total crap, because growing older doesn’t have to mean “getting worse.” I mean, look at Anne Hathaway? Sandra Bullock? JLO? If these ladies can age like fine wine, so we can we. Your 40s, 50s, and beyond can be some of the most exciting times of your life if you shift your focus to appreciating the aging process and challenging these stupid stereotypes....

Dating apps have completely changed the dating game. So much so, that we’ve dedicated tons of time to them for you here at Dear Media. We’ve posted about everything from dating apps for introverts to apps for hooking up—there’s a wide variety! In a perfect world, they are great for meeting new people. But, in reality? They’ve transformed online dating into a game with pretty high stakes with endless red flags....

Hitting your 30s can be amazing, but it can also be really hard. It’s a big season of change, but it’s also when you kind of start figuring stuff out and getting your sht together. Hopefully, that comes with more confidence, so you’re ready to take some big steps: taking on more responsibilities at work, having kids, starting a business, etc. With all these changes, your social life may take a backseat....

Over sushi and sake, the duo dove into everything from the Blue Origin “space” landing (air quotes very much intended) to the craziness of the Diddy trial, plus the Taylor Swift and Blake Lively drama—and the alleged blackmail that everyone is watching. Did Katy Perry really go to space? Cavallari kicks it off with some conspiracy theories, starting with her belief that the 1969 moon landing never happened. She’s equally skeptical about the recent Blue Origin flight that sent a few scientists and Gayle King, Lauren Sánchez, and Katy Perry to space for a few minutes....

Affirmations are fantastic for helping you keep a positive mindset, and we could all use a little more positivity these days! So, for today’s post we’re sharing a round-up of affirmations that can help build self esteem. There are several types of affirmations. But regardless of what kind you use, all are effective when spoken in the present tense. By incorporating them into your daily routine, you can use them as a powerful tool to combat negative self-talk....

Let’s explore the best budget-friendly beauty must-haves straight from the pros. Hair Care for Less Laura Polko Los Angeles ($14 and under, Target) Move over, Walmart Birkin—TikTok’s got a new obsession. Laura Polko Los Angeles is a haircare brand that looks and performs like a luxury but costs your daily coffee run. With formulas approved by celebs (Gigi Hadid and Charli D’Amelio swear by Laura Polko), this line is about volume, moisture, and color protection without sulfates, parabens, or a hefty price tag....

Here are the top Golden Globe moments that will forever live in infamy—albeit not all for the right reasons. 10. The Grey’s Anatomy Snafu That Made Headlines In 2007, drama from Grey’s Anatomy spilled off-screen and into the headlines—and it was messier than all the Real Housewives seasons combined. During an unforgettable red-carpet interview, Isaiah Washington, who played Dr. Preston Burke, reignited controversy with his co-star T.R. Knight (aka Dr....

What We Learned from Justine Lupe on ‘The World’s First Podcast’ 1. She treats every audition like her only shot Justine might have trained at Juilliard, but she approaches every audition as her only chance. “I frame my auditions as like, this is the time to do the part,” she said. “You might not get to get that part. So like, if you wanna act this part, this is your moment....

The Problem with Men (and Dating When You’re a Powerhouse) Right out of the gate, Lauryn and Michael Bosstick get Frankel talking about dating as a wildly successful woman—and yes, it’s as tricky as you’d imagine. “They big dick me on podcasts,” Bethenny jokes. “I can out big dick anybody on a podcast… but I would like to be out big dicked on a date. That’s what I’m looking for.” Frankel, who built her empire from scratch, explains that men start strong—until they realize who she really is....

If there’s one thing we love at Dear Media, it’s podcasts. Like, DUH, right? But podcasts truly have so much to offer. They can make you feel seen and heard while also improving your life or entertaining you! And there are plenty of podcasts out there, so there’s always going to be one with a topic you enjoy. The podcasts that typically resonate the most with women in their 20s are self-help and lifestyle advice podcasts....

Your mood, routine, productivity, grief is just, well… sh*tty. There’s no sugarcoating it; it’s straight-up rough. Whether it’s a dull ache in the back of your mind or a full-on fog you can’t shake, there’s no roadmap for when or how you’re supposed to be “over it.” This is where books can help. They won’t totally erase the pain, but they remind you that you’re not alone in it. And that somehow, someway, you will find yourself again....

When you’re a mom, “me time” feels impossible. Between working, planning, cooking, driving, cleaning, doing laundry, and everything else that comes with home management, literally the days just feel like they fly by and you probably don’t get as much wellness time as you deserve. To get in that daily self-care in, you’ve got to multitask. One great way of unwinding and investing in yourself as a multi-tasking mom is by listening to podcasts!...

Christie Brinkley: ‘Uptown Girl’ Revealed Billy Joel Drinking, Affairs Christie Brinkley and Billy Joel’s marriage breakdown “To be clear,” Brinkley writes in the book, “I never wanted to end things with Billy. But his drinking was bigger than the both of us.” This wasn’t a tabloid spectacle or some frivolous celebrity split—it was a woman holding on to love while it crumbled around her. On Taste of Taylor, host Taylor Strecker and guest Emma Willmann dove into the details of Brinkley’s revelations....

Hoping to live up to her parents’ expectations, Moon graduated high school at 15, finished college by 19, and graduated top of her class from medical school by 23. “I finished residency, got married, and had two kids by the time I was 30,” she tells Cole. High achievement was her baseline, she explains—until she started to feel like she was burning out. Read on to learn how Dr. Moon knew she was experiencing burnout and how she got her life back on track....

Everything That Just Turned 20 and Will Make You Question Your Mortality Books that are old enough to vote It was a big year for bestsellers, with several book juggernauts that can now drink legally: The Girl With The Dragon Tattoo Freakonomics The Year of Magical Thinking Harry Potter and the Half-Blood Prince “People lined up at midnight for it. Oh, you guys know I miss the days of a midnight movie or a midnight book premiere,” says Madi....

There are A TON of dating terms and slang words in the world of modern dating. It can be hard AF to keep up, but it’s important to understand what people are talking about. For example, have you noticed all of the recent chatter about flags? People everywhere are talking about red, yellow, green, and beige flags. But WTF does it all mean? Let’s get a few things straight. Red flags are the things that set off BIG alarm bells and almost guarantee this thing is NOT going to work....

Here’s the thing: you can’t control what others say about you, but you can decide how you respond. You have the power to choose how you react, including whether to react at all. If you’re not sure what to say when someone talks bad about you, we got you! Keep reading for some great ways to respond anytime someone talks smack. What To Say When Someone Talks Bad About You Consider your source....

Having the right people in your corner can change your life and we’re not just talking about keeping your mental health in check. Studies show that strong friendships can lower blood pressure, strengthen your immune system, and help you live longer. Yeah, we’re talking about real deal sh*t here friendships are important! Just listen to this episode of Life with Marianna to hear more. So, in the spirit of speaking up about the small moments and honoring the people who make our lives so full, we’re talking about the importance of friendship and why you need to celebrate it....

Daphne Delvaux, known as The Mamattorney, discovered this when her own employer didn’t understand California’s maternity laws. She ended up researching the policies herself, presenting them to her boss, and essentially became the template for other moms like herself. Now she educates mothers about their workplace rights because, as she learned firsthand, most women have no idea what they’re actually entitled to. The information gap isn’t accidental. Maternity laws vary from state to state Delvaux says that maternity rights boil down to “the zip code lottery”—where you live determines how much time you get, whether any of it’s paid, and how long you get to spend with your baby before the pressure to return to work starts creeping in....

Setting mental health goals is a great way to prioritize yourself and boost your emotional growth. It’s all about living your authentic life and feeling damn good about it. So, if you’re in a funk, listen up! Today, we’re sharing a round-up of specific, measurable mental health goals (and episodes from some of the best mental health podcasts) that can help you overcome anxiety, depression, and other mental wellness struggles....