The good news? It’s entirely possible to network authentically, both online and offline without being cringe. 

How to Network Without Being Cringe

In-Person Networking: Less Awkward, More Genuine

Start Small with Shared Spaces If the idea of walking into a packed networking event makes your palms sweat, start with familiar territory. Your local coffee shop, gym, or even a community event related to your interests can be good places for organic and casual conversations. For example, if you’re into coding, join a local hackathon. You’re already there for a shared purpose, so connecting feels less forced. Use the Power of Compliments Skip the elevator pitch and start with something you genuinely admire about the other person—maybe it’s their presentation skills or unique perspective during a panel discussion. Thoughtful compliments show you’re paying attention and make others feel valued. Ask Open-Ended Questions Avoid yes/no questions and ask, “What inspired you to pursue this career path?” or “What’s been the most exciting part of your role lately?” Open-ended questions lead to deeper conversations and reveal shared interests or goals. Follow Up Meaningfully  After meeting someone, send a quick follow-up email or message referencing a specific part of your conversation. Keep it casual: “It was great chatting about AI trends at last week’s tech meetup. I would love to hear more about your experience implementing ethical AI practices!”

Online Networking: How to Stand Out While Keeping It Real

LinkedIn: Personalize Your Outreach LinkedIn doesn’t have to feel like a corporate resume dump. When connecting, explain why you’re reaching out specifically to them. Maybe you read an article they wrote or admire their career trajectory. Authenticity here is key. Bluesky: Embrace Casual Conversations Newer platforms like Bluesky have a more laid-back vibe. Participate in discussions that interest you or share thoughtful insights on trending topics. Authentic interactions build credibility and help people see you as someone worth knowing. TikTok: Show Your Personality TikTok might not scream “professional networking,” but it’s a powerful tool for building your brand. Share your expertise through your unique lens—quick tutorials, industry insights, or behind-the-scenes glimpses of your creative process. Engage with others in your industry by commenting on or duetting their videos. Zoom: Be Prepared and Personable Virtual coffee chats or meetings can be as impactful as in-person ones. Before hopping on a Zoom call, research who you’re trying to network with. Know who you’re speaking with and have a few conversation points ready. Smile, make eye contact (as much as possible on a screen), and don’t shy away from showing a bit of your personality. Slack: Build Micro-Connections  If you’re part of a Slack group or workspace, take advantage of it! Participate in channels related to your interests or expertise. Celebrate others’ wins, share helpful resources, and don’t hesitate to DM someone if you’re genuinely curious about their work. Just keep your messages friendly and non-intrusive.

Tips for Both Worlds

Building professional connections doesn’t have to feel intimidating or inauthentic. By embracing genuine curiosity, shared interests, and consistency, you’ll create a meaningful and supportive network without a hint of cringe.

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